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Words and Music

If I wanted to be romantic, I’d say recent events and encounters instigated this search for the lovely and the beautiful; on a more mundane level, we’d call it retail therapy. Either way, my hunger was assuaged somewhat on recent jaunts to the stores where, despite this ever-growing list of books to read, I splurged on…

Paulo Coelho’s The Zahir
I had read The Alchemist and found it to be too mystical to be relevant, but I’d wanted this title for some time now, intrigued by the plot of an author whose beloved disappeared, perhaps with another man, and who now has the chance to find out what happened with his lost love. The narrative is poetic, the narrator (so far) is engaging, and the story is tugging me forward through the pages. I do face distractions though because I also added, to my bookpile..

Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s One Hundred Years of Solitude
Another translated novel in the bookbag, and a book that has been long-read by more literary friends of mine. I’d never had the inclination to pick it up, until now, when a chance encounter with another passage in another book (I do not remember which) brought my feet to this title. “Essential reading for the human race,” so touts the NYT on the back cover, and in the bookstore, my eyebrows shot up. The curiousity’s piqued, and as always, it overcomes reservations.

Alice Sebold’s The Almost Moon
I’d read and enjoyed her first, The Lovely Bones, a tale which haunted me long after the last line was over, not because of the horror that lay trapped within her suburban setting, but because of the journey one of the book’s characters went through. It’s sobering, when events shake us and alter the way we look at the world. You cannot get any more sensational a follow-up than I-killed-my-Mother-and-now-let-me-tell-you-why, and the much-quoted opening sentence “When all is said and done, killing my Mother came easily” makes such an enticing bait, I am more than willing to be reeled in.

Carlos Fuentes’s This I Believe
The third translated Latin American novel in the bookbag, this is a collection of essays on subjects that range from Amor to Zurich (in true A to Z manner!) by celebrated Mexican novelist Carlos Fuentes. I have tasted Amor and am skipping over to Children, Globalisation, Women, Reading, Freedom, Happiness, Education, Jealousy, Reading, Sex and Shakespeare next, though not necessarily in that order. In Amor, Fuentes touches also on politics: ”In political life, it is possible to convince oneself that one is acting out of love for a community, while driving that community into destruction and inspiring hatred from within and without“, before weaving through the more familiar streets of passion, desire and the very necessity (as well as frailty) of love. It’s a rich essay – not one I can digest in one sitting, in fact, so I look forward to lush meals of his thoughts, his words, one morsel at a time.

My search for the beautiful did not end at the bookstore. Music, as they say, has the power to soothe and inspire, too, and a trip to the MPO resulted in two bookings, one of what promises to be a fun day of dance and music (with kids in tow) and another of technical mastery and soaring piano music. Both are in May and June next year but having the tickets in my bag made me happier. This guy’s collection also ended up in my shopping bag – and I regard this as one of the best music purchases I’ve made this year (admittedly, I do not make many).

It was an uplifting trip, a revisit to the world of words and music, and a lyrical reminder, one hopes, of the good the world and its people still has to offer.

Filed under: At the Stores, Books, Music, Personal Note

After the Drought

It’s pretty obvious, that I am facing a drought of sorts when it comes to blogpost ideas.

Not that there haven’t been items worth blogging about – a recent article in WSJ on younger women discarding their corporate career ambitions for fear of neglecting their family, for example (their older career sisters view this with concern and urge the young women not to view career and family as an either-or option before they have even embarked on their careers; I agree); a letter in Utusan Malaysia (in Malay) by a Sisters in Islam EXCO member rightly pointing out the good SIS has done in pushing women’s rights, especially for Muslim women, and the questions posed to SIS in response (a few of which are valid); my maiden visits to some Islamic clothing websites, thanks to Najah, which have a tempting range of clothing and headscarves (yes, we have a wide range here but the styles are different and who has time to shop nowadays?), and some other tidbits that could have been fashioned into a blogpost (my continuing irritation with people who don’t respond to calls, e-mails, and SMS-es being one of them).

Despite the blog silence, Sharon would be pleased to know I have jotted down snatches of thoughts and emotions before they floated away though I am far from being a regular journal-writer.

Picador Shots “The Professor’s History”I have also been ambitious (and weak) enough to buy more books at a recent bookstore jaunt, despite an ever-long reading list:

I have not read a single one of the above though I’ve started on the Silverfish.

It’s due to the MBA (no weekends until January!), the work, the family, etc, and also due to Frank McCourt’s Teacher Man, which I am three-quarters of the way through (and it is a very enjoyable journey), and Jeremy Clarkson’s The World According to Clarkson which was lent by a friend and which makes a very amusing dip, if you are into wry British humour (he’s a bit too clever sometimes). Both these books sit either on the passenger seat of my car, for handy traffic-jam readings, or on my bedside table.

The desire for fiction ebbs and flows these days. I used to love fiction and read nothing but.

Now, I find myself in the middle of Teacher Man, or The Historian (I have stalled for a bit on this), and then I’m asking myself – isn’t this a waste of time, to read about characters whose lives are so removed from mine that there is probably very little use I can make of what I have read? The guilt then arrives, especially when the eyes catch sight of the MBA tomes that wait dolefully on the desk.

I still love stories but now have to justify to myself why I read them.

It is strange, how you change. But more on this in another post, perhaps.

On the work/productivity side, I have caved in and bought myself a Levenger Circa Junior Notebook, because my current notebook system is getting too disorganised with personal jottings getting lost in the midst of professional items and with space running out too quickly for the day to day to-do lists. The Circa system – based on Rollabind – seems a good high quality solution that will allow me to mix and match pages as I please. I’ll post my feedback once I have it in my hands to play with (I cannot wait).

To soothe the nerves, I am currently listening to Diana Krall’s latest CD, From This Moment On,  a very sedate collection (compared with The Girl in the Other Room) from the jazz blonde who croons in mellow tones to big-band sounds. I present an excerpt of an interview with this 42-year old, from an IHT interview that lured me to her new album:

For someone so accomplished, Krall accepts praise warily. Unlike Harry Connick Jr. – the only other jazz singer and pianist of her generation to attain comparable success – Krall is fiercely self-critical. But beyond her shyness is a performer with a formidable drive and independent spirit. This is a woman, after all, who instead of going to college, getting a degree and settling down to raise a family, lit out for Los Angeles by herself at 19 to follow her dream. Her urge to charge forward has propelled her to where she is today. “I’m not one to sit around,” she said. “I like high adrenaline. I’m the last one to fall down and the first one to say, ‘I may be tired, but I’ll keep going.’”

After all that’s happened this year, we may be tired, but let’s keep on going.

Filed under: At the Stores, Books, Music, Personal Note, Women, Work & Productivity

Playlist, Part 3 (Stupid Girls)

I meant to write my early thoughts of the Malaysian Budget but I was at the gym today and had an overdose of MTV and Channel V. Slick, slick music videos visually designed to excite, entice and entrance. Thirty minutes of this and I wasn’t just dizzy from the heart-pumping aerobic activity but also from the furious whirrs of hips, jiggles of breasts, spreads of thighs and gyrations of naked mid-sections on screen, all superimposed with come hither eyes and pouty lips.

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Filed under: Music, Personal Note, Women

Puteri Gunung Ledang, Alternate Cast

Courtesy of Hubby’s good friend, we got tickets to watch Puteri Gunung Ledang on Sunday night – Hubby, Uncle, Aunt, me. It was the night of the “alternate cast” of – and I hope I get this right – ‘Baby Erin’ as the Puteri, Aqasha (Akassha?) as Hang Tuah, and Jeffry Haikel as Sultan Mahmud (no, I did not know about it, and yes, I was disappointed that the glamourous Datin T and the rather dashing Stephen Rahman Hughes were not performing; the Datin did attend though with her other half).

The crowd must have consisted mostly of the alternate cast’s supporters because the applause and the cheers were racuous from start to finish.

I went with very little expectations, despite from the rave reviews some of my friends had given of the production. The mystique of Puteri Gunung Ledang had never particularly entranced me, even as a kid, and I lumped it together with other stories of incredibly beautiful women lusted over by half the world’s men, that end in unnecessary tragedy (yes, these include the Helen of Troy tale).

But I was prepared to be won over.

And PGL did that, sort of, despite the alternative cast, and the absence of SRH.

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Filed under: Arts, Music, Personal Note

Protected: Playlist, part 2

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Filed under: Music, Personal Note, Playing Favourites

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Where Different Threads Come Together

Not at all sewing-related (Eliza can't sew a hemline to save her life), The Haberdashery is where Eliza runs to, when her assortment of thoughts threatens to overwhelm her. You are welcome to stay but watch out for the tangles. And the pins. Stubborn threads: Books and Writing. The Haberdashery is currently operated out of Malaysia, Eliza's beloved homeland.

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